What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you say marriage? Well, it depends on whether you’re the host or the guest. And just in case you happen to be the latter, you’re truly in for a thrilling experience. For those who aren’t aware, wedding ceremony in Korea is all about staying true to your roots.
In other words, it’s about small scale and intimate events that scream adorable from a far distance. Good food, great company, and minimalist décor- you’re in for an absolute treat. Did I mention some unique traditions too?
From the cultural ceremony to the reception, each step is surrounded by the most heart-warming moments. And needless to say, they’re incomparable to all others. After attending a number of weddings around the globe, it’s safe to say, this one definitely ranks high on my list.
For this reason, if you happen to be a traveler, you should surely try and attend a wedding ceremony in Korea. You’ll definitely be thanking me later.
South Korean marriages- mirroring years of ancient traditions
You might be a little taken a back when you find out how deeply rooted marriages are in Korean culture. It’s almost as if years of traditional values are revamped to grab the true essence of it all. And as a foreign guest, it’s amazing to see how vibrant the customs are.
However, over the years, some people may disagree. And that’s because a modern era calls for some revamping and in that case, some aspects do fade away.
Nevertheless, if you’re as lucky as I was to witness a classic marriage ceremony, then you’d be going back home with plenty of memorable keepsakes.
Pre-ceremony Marital Bliss
A Korean wedding ceremony is incomplete without some much needed pre-marital bliss. Meanwhile, in Korean culture, this means plenty of traditional values.
Like all other areas, parents or the elders make the necessary wedding decisions. And since marriage is one of the biggest steps in any person’s life, there’s simply no excuse to rushing on important core values.
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It all starts off with the match making process. Here, parents sit down with their kids and discuss the entire possibilities of marriage. Once things go in line with requirements from both sides, elders agree on a final date.
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Korean wedding ceremony- a closer look at it all
Here is where you’ll see true classic Korean culture come to life. It’s all about immersing your senses into a rich and vibrant surrounding, backed up with rituals galore.
Both bride and groom wear classic outfits, giving them a classic and regal look. On the other hand, guests and other people attending can show up in formal attire. As far as lighting and décor is concerned, you’ll see lanterns and flowers galore.
Meanwhile, the groom’s side of the family usually enters with a giant chest. This is filled with wonderful gifts for the bride’s side. Let’s not forget the symbol for a happy marriage is actually wedding geese. At the same time, duck represent peace, offspring, and plenty of fidelity. Hence, you’ll see them present in the décor or on stashes via wardrobes.
Bride and groom wedding attire- staying true to your roots
A Korean wedding ceremony comes alongside gorgeous wedding attire. Women with a short jacked with classic long sleeves. On the other hand, you’ll find two long stemmed ribbons that arise from the top to the bottom.
Next, brides pair the jacked with a stunning long hemmed skirt. To complete their look, they wear boat style shoes. White stashes with floral elements give the look an alluringly new dimension. On some occasions, brides can adorn crowns too.
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For men, it’s a much simpler but fancy attire. Termed by many as gwanbok, the look comprises of loose sleeved jackets and roomy trousers. These come tied towards the ankle region. For the look’s perfect ending, you might find many men adorning a black toned hat.
The wedding hall and heartwarming exchanges
While most Korean weddings are small scale and held at traditional homes, churches or venues, there are exceptions. Luxurious events take place in mega hotels, ballrooms, and other wedding halls. The choice is totally upon the hosts of the event.
A wedding in Korea is incomplete without exchanges. Whether it’s food and wine to clothing and accessories, the list is endless. And it’s practices like these that truly give it a charm of its own. On some events, even cash gets exchanged.
Don’t forget to check out the world’s first floating complex- Sebitseom Floating Island Seoul.
The grand reception- wedding ceremony in Korea
In modern receptions, you’ll see bride and grooms donning a more westernized attire and chic décor. Think along the lines of long trails and veils as well as bouquets for brides. On the other hand, men look on fleek in their crisp black tuxedos.
One of the greatest aspects of Korean wedding is the lavish and delectable cuisine. You’ll find plenty of traditional delicacies. Meanwhile, common popular favorites include marinated beef strips and seafood galore. Kimchi, sushi, and many other side dishes are present in abundance too. At the same time, there are so many tantalizing dipping sauces to make your heart go wow!
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And like other Korean meals, there’s always sticky rice and soups by your side. On the other hand, how can you forget the great pastries and fruits for dessert. I hope your mouth isn’t watering after hearing about the scrumptious meal. But in all honestly, it’s an absolute feast.
